Findom

Financial domination, aka findom, is when a sub shows the act of ultimate submission by the transfer of money. On SP, you can drain finsubs through tips, a long sexting session, and/or a long call. Letting go by sending money to a powerful energy is what arouses finsubs. For them, nothing beats seeing Mistress succeed and feeling they contributed.

Look and act the part. Though outfits that include boots, leather, latex, or black are classic, your dominance can come across in your poses, camera angles, and most importantly—your attitude. Always exude power. You don’t need them; they need you. They're lucky to be a part of your world. Finsubs are compelled to pay tribute to powerful energies—not charity cases. 

Part of displaying your power is avoiding pestering paypigs for money. It’s not attractive. If your finsub is online, slowly engage them. Use vocab that triggers their fetish but don’t act like you need attention. “How’s my pathetic paypig today?” “Losing yourself in my pics, boot licker?” Finsubs have different styles: Ask whether they want a demanding or bratty dom or an encouraging, sensual dom. Everyone plays at a different pace and with a different budget, so the better you understand each client, the better the drain is for everyone.

Don’t forget about aftercare! Following any dom/sub session, the dom’s responsibility is to check in on their sub. This comes in many forms; you might praise them for being such a “good pet” or “obedient slave” and remind them to rest.

One last tip—there are a few behaviors that violate the Code of Conduct, so please review. Even if the user asks for it, models cannot engage in blackmail, threatening behavior, or exposure (i.e., publicly posting information about a user).

Let the wallet draining begin!