Harness and Strap-On Play—Online!
Let's be real; mastering the art of strap-on play can be a little tricky when playing on video calls or in clips. But with some creativity and the right mindset, you can still make the experience as tantalizing and realistic as possible, even from behind the screen.
Choosing the Right Harness: Your First Step to a Sexy, Seamless Scene
Regarding cam-to-cam strap-on play, picking the correct harness is key! The right harness doesn’t just fit your body; it fits the vibe you’re going for and has to be comfortable for however long you intend to wear it.
Look for adjustable straps that offer the perfect fit because nobody wants to fidget with their gear mid-performance. If you think you will be repeatedly putting it on and off, you could benefit from an underwear-style harness that does not have to be loosened or tightened. Comfort is the most important thing here, so go for something soft, breathable, and sturdy to focus on the fun, not readjusting every five minutes.
Now, let’s talk about the fun part: the style! Do you want to go for sleek and minimalist, or are you feeling more adventurous with something bold and eye-catching? Whether aiming for “sensual mystery” or “show-stopping allure,” the right harness helps set the stage for the perfect cam-to-cam performance. Wear what makes you feel empowered, and you’ll not only look amazing—you’ll feel like you own the screen (which you do)!
If you will be using larger toys, you also have to ensure the harness has a large enough O-ring opening. Most harnesses have a 1.5” O-ring that accommodates most small to medium-sized sex toys. Some firmer, thicker harnesses can hold larger and heavier toys if that best fits your role-play style!
Harness Examples for Comfort and Style!
If you have a collection of suction-cup dildos you enjoy using for strap-on play and want to be able to alternate easily, having an interchangeable strap-on harness may be just what you’re looking for. The Body Dock Elite is a prime example of a harness base which any suction-cup dildo can attach.
Want something sensual and sexy? The Regal Queen harness has three different O-ring attachments for separate dildo sizes and is made of vegan leather. It’s sturdy and strappy and will highlight every bit of your power and control (while looking incredible).
Don’t want to mess around with any straps? These Brief Harness panties are perfect to wear comfortably in between calls or filming media and are even easier to whip on and off! The O-ring attachment also holds the dildo close to the body to prohibit any drooping during play.
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Simulating Strap-On Play Online: Bringing the Fantasy to Life
Simulating harness play during an online session can be a fun and immersive experience, even if you're not physically in the same room. The key is to get creative with your movements, visuals, and interactions to make the experience feel as engaging as possible. Here’s how you can simulate the experience of harness play while keeping things playful and interactive.
Set the Scene for Maximum Impact
Before diving into the action, it’s important to set the right atmosphere. The lighting, background, and camera angles will help establish the mood for the session.
Try positioning your phone for filming in a way that emphasizes the harness and your movements! Many times, strap-on requests put you in the position of power, so filming from a lower position to make the dildo within your harness appear even bigger or more impactful may assist with setting the scene! Try these ideas for filming:
Place the phone or camera on a desk or a table so you’re framed from the side and there’s plenty of room to thrust back and forth while remaining in the shot!
Place the camera on the ground looking upward so you appear tall and powerful and it highlights the harness and dildo.
Try filming from a position someone would be on when they are on their knees. This makes them feel like they are POV giving a blowjob and you can move the camera along the dildo to simulate the blowjob, itself!
Simulate Movements and Actions
While you might not be able to engage in the same physical actions as in person, you can still simulate the harness play by mimicking movements and gestures. If you are wearing the strap on and you want to simulate a blowjob, put your hand down as if you meant to put it on the back of their head. Guide it forward and backward along the shaft as you speak to the customer! If you want to simulate fucking someone doggystyle, it helps to position the camera to the side so they can see you thrust your hips forward and backward near the side of a bed or chair (so they can imagine being bent over it!)
Focus on the timing and rhythm of your movements, using slow and deliberate motions to keep the session engaging. Your body language plays an important role in conveying the mood and keeping your partner connected to the experience and a part of the fantasy.
Engage in Interactive Communication
Here are some ways you can encourage the user to share how they are feeling and keep the scene going!
“How do you like it when I bend you over and give it to you like that?”
“I want you to use the dildo on yourself at the same speed you see me thrust…”
“Can you feel me inside you?”
“Stroke yourself like this…” (while you show on the pegging dildo)
Simulating harness play online is about using your creativity, body language, and communication to create a fun and engaging experience. Even without physical proximity, you can build an intimate and exciting scene. With the right mindset and a little playfulness, your online sessions can be even more flexible and engaging for everyone involved.