Sissies & Sissification

In its most generalized form, sissification is when a person born male enjoys or is sexually aroused by dressing, acting, and being treated in a stereotypically feminine way. Sissification is more than crossdressing; it includes a mental shift.

For some, it’s about submission and humiliation via feminization. Sissies who want to be verbally emasculated might want to have their dick caged and/or treated like a clit. They may want to be teased for wearing panties and makeup. You might use language that breaks down all sense of typically masculine traits. Be careful that you’re never saying anything about forcing them, taking away consent, exposing them, or blackmailing them. Some users will ask for these, but you’ll need to redirect since it’s all against the Code of Conduct.

For other sissies, it’s about embracing and celebrating a hidden part of themselves and may even be part of a trans journey. They may want someone to guide them on how to be more feminine, from clothing recommendations to makeup choices to how to suck a 🍆. Think stereotypical slumber party—they want to be one of the girls by painting nails, braiding hair, and gossiping about guys. If they want to dress up, you might use encouraging language about how pretty or sexy they are.

If you don’t know where to start, ask what being a sissy means to them, what makes them feel most like a sissy, whether they have a name they like to be called, etc. You might have way more fun with sissies than you ever thought!