Build Your Profile: Bio

You have 400 characters to pitch yourself—make ‘em count! Remember that your bio, photos, and intro video should all compliment each other. If your profile photos show you as a BDSM domme, your bio shouldn’t say you’re a sweet submissive.

Write in a way that captures your persona. If you’re sweet and bubbly, use a friendly, upbeat tone and emojis. If you’re submissive, show with words how you love to beg for it. If you’re a goddess, demand to be worshiped.

If you don’t feel like you yet have a succinct opening statement that expresses your persona, start somewhere simpler. What really turns you on? Which kinks and fetishes do you engage in? Do you fulfill a certain niche, such as a MILF, bimbo, or girl next door? Is your body type—curvy, athletic, petite, tall, etc.—part of what people typically find attractive about you?

Be honest. Don’t call yourself a findomme if you don’t know the first thing about draining a wallet. You might initially attract a client, but they won’t stay long if they find that you don’t match up with your profile. If you’re honest in your bio, you’ll also enjoy your experience much more, because you’re far less likely to have clients ask for things you don’t do.

Last, but not least, do not violate the Code of Conduct. Do not include forbidden activities or terms, and do not copy another model’s bio. If you are found to be in violation, you will receive a warning and be required to remove the content in question. Don’t use valuable bio space to include links; your can include certain links in a different section of your profile.

Remember—just like your profile pictures and intro video—you can revise your bio at any time. You might discover a new kink, come up with a more compelling and authentic way to express yourself, or even rebrand yourself. Occasionally revisit what you wrote and update as needed.