Glossary
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aftercare: typically in BDSM, it’s the physical and emotional care provided when a scene is over to prevent or ease drop; a crucial part of BDSM play
amateur: refers to homemade, nonprofessional content or models who do not act in professional scenes; pairs well with girlfriend experience, girl next door, MILF, and POV
anal: sexual activity involving penetration of the anus
armpits: sexual attraction to armpits
đź“– Learn more here about handling requests for armpit content on SextPanther.
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BBC or BBD: stands for big black cock or dick; can refer to one who has a BBC or is attracted to
‼️ Read here for the difference between BBC and raceplay, an activity forbidden in the Code of Conduct.
BBW: stands for big beautiful women; can refer to the person who identifies as BBW or someone who is attracted to the body type
BDSM: stands for bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism
‼️ Read here for the difference between BDSM and extreme BDSM, an activity forbidden in the Code of Conduct.
BWC: stands for big white cock; can refer to one who has BWC or is attracted to it
bondage: acts or scenes involving tying, binding, or otherwise restraining a partner, including a failsafe that allows the person restrained to escape in an emergency; typically related to dominance/submission play
đź“– Learn more here about handling bondage scenes on SextPanther.
bottom: the partner who has given up their power to the top or dominant partner and must obey the top according to the terms of the relationship; also known as the dominant
bukkake: a Japanese term to describe the act of several men ejaculating onto and all over a recipient
bull: a man who has sex with someone else’s partner—with all parties consenting to the arrangement
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chastity: when someone keeps their partner from orgasming by preventing their partner from stimulating or accessing their own genitals; may involve an actual cage or bondage
đź“– Learn more here about handling chastity activities on SextPanther.
creampie: the act and result of filling a vagina or anus with cum; may involve cum dripping out and/or someone eating the creampie
cuckold or cuck: a man (typically) who is sexually aroused by his partner having sex with other men (known as a bull); cuckolding often involves humiliation and degradation and may involve chastity
đź“– Learn more here about handling cuckolding scenes on SextPanther.
cuck queen: a woman (typically) who has sex with other men (typically) to control and/or humiliate her partner for sexual arousal
cum eating instruction (CEI): directing an individual on how to eat their cum, which may be to humiliate or encourage
đź“– Learn more here about handling CEI on SextPanther.
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denial: preventing someone from reaching orgasm
dominant, dom, domme, domina: the partner with the authority and power; dom is masculine, domme and domina are feminine; also known as the top
dominant/submissive, dominance/submission (dom/sub): the terms to describe the people, behaviors, rules, or rituals in a relationship or scene in which one party has authority over the other
đź“– Learn more here about engaging in dom/sub activities on SextPanther.
drain: in financial domination (findom), refers to when the sub gives the dom the maximum amount of money they can give in that session
drop (also, sub drop, dom drop): feeling physically and emotionally drained after a BDSM scene; practicing aftercare is crucial to prevent or ease drop
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edging: maintaining an aroused state to come close to the point of orgasm but stopping before reaching orgasm; done to create a prolonged and more stimulating experience said to result in a more euphoric orgasm; can last for minutes, hours, or sometimes days
exhibitionist: a person who is sexually aroused by showing their genitals or being watched in a sexual act in public or in a private, with strangers or known play partners
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facial: when a penis ejaculates onto a face
female domination (femdom): when a woman assumes the authority role in a dom/sub scene; wide ranging from worshipping and serving to deeply loving and caring for to humiliating and degrading oneself for the woman in power
financial domination (findom): when the dom has some level of control over the sub’s finances and spending
đź“– Learn more here about engaging in findom on SextPanther.
foot fetish: being sexually aroused by feet—parts of the feet (e.g., toes) and/or interacting with the feet (e.g., licking, massaging, receiving a foot job)
📖 Learn more here about handling users’ foot fetishes on SextPanther.
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giantess: fantasy play in which the woman is significantly physically larger than the man either because she is/has become a giant or he has been shrunk in some way
đź“– Learn more here about handling requests for giantess content on SextPanther.
girlfriend experience (GFE): acting as the client’s girlfriend to provide an intimate and typically ongoing experience
đź“– Learn more here about engaging in GFE on SextPanther.
girl next door: a sweet, approachable persona who appears to be innocent; may seem sweet and pure but be secretly slutty
gooning: bringing oneself to the edge of orgasm—without orgasming—over and over again to reach a meditative or trance-like state of intense pleasure; gooning involves edging but the two differ by having different goals; gooning is not the same as hypno or mindfuck
‼️ Read here for the difference between gooning and hypno, an activity forbidden in the Code of Conduct.
đź“– Learn more here about handling gooners on SextPanther.
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hair or hairy: can refer to the person who is hairy or the kink of becoming sexually aroused by body hair, typically an excessive amount of body hair
đź“– Learn more here about handling requests for hairy content on SextPanther.
homewrecking: play involving a variety of scenarios, including but not limited to the homewrecker seducing the person away from their spouse, the homewrecker describing their superiority to the spouse, and the homewrecker insulting and humiliating the spouse
đź“– Learn more here about engaging in homewrecking on SextPanther.
humiliation: when the sub consents to the dom insulting them or the dom instructing them to complete a demeaning or embarrassing activity
đź“– Learn more here about engaging in humiliation on SextPanther.
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jerk off instruction (JOI): directing an individual on how to masturbate, often playing with speed and grip; may be demanding or encouraging; may involve teasing, denial, and/or permission to cum
đź“– Learn more here about handling JOI on SextPanther.
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latex: sexual arousal from wearing or seeing/feeling someone else wearing latex due to the enhanced stimulation and level of restriction caused by wearing latex
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male domination: when a man assumes the authority role in a dom/sub scene; wide ranging from worshipping and serving to deeply loving and caring for to humiliating and degrading oneself for the man in power
masochist: someone who enjoys or is sexually aroused by receiving physical or emotional pain
mature: an older adult performer
MILF: stands for mom I’d like to fuck; attractive and approachable persona; can be the mom version of the girl next door
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PAWG: stands for phat ass white girl; can refer to one who is a PAWG or one who is attracted to the type
pay pig: the person who is financially submissive in a findom relationship
pegging: using a strap-on dildo for anal sex
đź“– Learn more here about engaging in pegging on SextPanther.
POV: stands for point of view; filming in a way that the viewer feels as if they are experiencing the scene from their point of view
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roleplaying: creating and acting out a fantasy scenario; common scenarios include boss/employee, teacher/of-age student, spy who’s been caught, maid/employer, massage therapist/client, doctor/patient, virgin, and delivery person
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sadist: someone who enjoys or is sexually aroused by delivering physical or emotional pain
safe word: the agreed-upon word someone can say during a scene to immediately stop
silent call: when the model performs but the client does not speak (and may not be on video) during a call often because the client is in a situation preventing them from making noise
sissy/sissification: when a man enjoys or is sexually aroused by dressing, acting, and being treated in a stereotypically feminine way; more than crossdressing, a mental shift is part of it; most often associated with submission and humiliation through feminization
đź“– Learn more here about playing with sissies and engaging in sissification on SextPanther.
small penis humiliation (SPH): when a man enjoys or is sexually aroused by being made fun of for the size of his penis; ranges from light teasing to ridicule and degradation
đź“– Learn more here about handling SPH on SextPanther.
snowballing: when someone with a mouth full of cum kisses another person and transfers the cum to their mouth
spinner: a term to describe a petite, small-framed women (i.e., one who is so small and light it’s as if she could “spin” atop an erect penis)
squirting: in female bodies, the release of liquid during or near orgasm that is not ejaculate (see this site for scientific details)
submissive, sub: the partner who has given up their power to the dominant partner and must obey the dominant according to the terms of the relationship; also known as the bottom
subspace: an altered mental state—sometimes described as dreamlike, floaty, euphoric, or blissful—a submissive experiences while engaged in a BDSM scene
switch: someone who can be either a dom (top) or sub (bottom), depending on the partner and scene
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top: the partner with the authority and power; also known as the dominant
topping from the bottom: when the bottom, or sub, tries to assert control over the scene, despite having agreed to allow the top to control the scene
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unicorn: a seemingly hard-to-find bisexual woman who wants to join a couple in a Male-Female-Female (MFF) threesome
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voyeur: a person who is sexually aroused by watching others undress or engage in sexual acts without directly participating in these activities